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Every baby’s mouth is shaped a little differently, and there is no single pacifier that works for every baby. Shape, softness, and material all matter, and what works beautifully for one baby may not be the right fit for yours. We recommend waiting to invest heavily in any one brand until you know what your baby takes to. That said, here are a few options we feel confident recommending as a starting point.
This cylindrical, straight nippled pacifier is considered a gold standard among our feeding therapists. Its shape allows the tongue to cup and elevate, rather than being held flat against the floor of the mouth, which promotes healthy oral rest posture. It is simple, one piece silicone construction, widely available, and a hospital favorite for good reason. If you have the version with an attached stuffed animal, we recommend removing it, as the added weight puts unnecessary pressure on the jaw which can have adverse effects on oral development.
Our Basic Pacifier Guidelines
- Choose a straight or cylindrical nipple shape over a flat or bulbous one, as this supports better tongue mobility
- Be cautious of pacifiers labeled “orthodontic,” as many feeding therapists find these are actually the least supportive of healthy oral development
- Aim to wean by 6 to 12 months, before use becomes habitual
- Watch for signs of jaw fixing or biting down to hold a pacifier in place, especially with heavier attachments
- If you are having trouble weaning from a pacifier, type “pacifier” into our directory to find a provider who can support you